My DD (17) called me last night saying that she thought she needed a doctor. She had just had sex with her boyfriend for the first time and was bleeding quite a bit. I took her to the hospital (being that is was a night and I could tell that, with the amount of bleeding, something wasn't right). So anyway, as it turns out, he is just a little bit bigger then the average guy (didn't see it, just what the doctor said probably happened) and she tore. She thought the pain and bleed was the normal first time stuff, so didn't think anything was wrong. She needed 2 stitches but other then that, she will be fine. While we were at the hospital,(boyfriend came too) her boyfriends parents called, they were out for the night and I made him tell them where we were (I wasn't going to allow him to lie about where he was with me right there). Anyway, his parents rushed to the hospital, and kept apologizing and insisted on paying her copay. I am not happy that they had sex or anything but they did and this is what happened. Maybe she will think again before she has sex but it's not like she was in a life threatening situation. Were they over reacting or did I under react?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 7:05 PM on Apr. 2, 2011 in Teens (13-17)
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Answer by Ati_13 at 7:17 PM on Apr. 2, 2011
OMG... Im SO glad Im not you.... boy oh boy oh boy. I know it isnt funny but what a hell of a deterrent!!!!
Hugs hugs hugs... that must have been one hell of a night... I have a 16 yr old and can NOT imagine what I would do.. mad, scared, sarcastic, angry, hurt, a myriad of feelings all at once.... Im not sure which feeling would surface first
I actually have a friend with the exact same story... but she was much older. She healed fine (now in her late 40s) and has a normal healthy sex life... but that DID put her off sex for a while... we can only hope its the same for your daughter.
Hey... but be very very very glad that she CALLED YOU and talked to you... at least she knows you will always be there for her.
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