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Does anyone else sometimes not trust there DH with the kids?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 9:59 PM on Apr. 2, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Um no. I trust him 100%, he might not do everything like I do, but he is more than capable of loving and taking care of our child.
    kaylan010

    Answer by kaylan010 at 10:02 PM on Apr. 2, 2011

  • uhhhh...no. she's just as much his daughter as sh is mine
    momofone725

    Answer by momofone725 at 10:02 PM on Apr. 2, 2011

  • i trust my husband with my children competely.
    3HappylKidds

    Answer by 3HappylKidds at 10:03 PM on Apr. 2, 2011

  • 100% trust 100% of the time.
    meooma

    Answer by meooma at 10:03 PM on Apr. 2, 2011

  • I always trust my husband 100% with our children.
    Orionsgirl

    Answer by Orionsgirl at 10:07 PM on Apr. 2, 2011

  • not trust THEIR DH....
    WOw, how did he become your kids'DAD? If you don't trust him, why did you have kids with him?
    minnesotanice

    Answer by minnesotanice at 10:08 PM on Apr. 2, 2011

  • I didn't trust my ex sometimes (father of my child) because he wasn't used to being around children. When I was home I had to do everything 100% of the time and it made me nervous. But I had to go back to work and he managed. He is a great father even though we may sometimes not agree or get along.
    June_Mama09

    Answer by June_Mama09 at 10:10 PM on Apr. 2, 2011

  • Minnesotanice...I don't think she means she doesn't TRUST them as in the sense he's a bad dad.
    Maybe I am wrong.

    I have a few friends who either leave the child in the crib until the mom (wife) returns...or close to the time she
    is to be home.
    Others who play video games and don't really play or interact with their children.

    My dh is fantastic with the kids...he'll cook, play with them and get them ready for bed....but sometimes I'll come home
    and they (our middle child) will still be up...but that isn't his fault, our middle child is so hard to get to sleep.
    ItsJustMe1017

    Answer by ItsJustMe1017 at 10:34 PM on Apr. 2, 2011

  • To Minnesotanice: You don't know fully how a man will be with their children until you have kids together, duh

    And to the OP....no I don't trust my husband with them all the time because he's shown me he can't be trusted. Sad, but true unfortunately!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:36 PM on Apr. 2, 2011

  • Of course I trust my husband with our children! Why would anyone have kids with someone they can't trust? I'll never understand that at all.
    lovingmy4babies

    Answer by lovingmy4babies at 10:40 PM on Apr. 2, 2011

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