My Step son who is 17, Assaulted his dad. And the cops were called. The cops pressed charges, And now we have a hearing to go to soon. My Question is this, At the Hearing what should we do. Should we say we want him to be easier on him because it was the first time that he has been in trouble. But the 4th time he has beat on his dad. Or do we just let the court do what it dose, And sit firm by it.
In my heart, I know that he has to learn. He has caused a lot of heart ache in my home. My two younger kids were very afraid of him. And they were acting out bad. Now that he is no longer in my home, The two younger ones are starting to act the way the did before. Witch is great. He has hit me, And tried pushing me down steps. He hit on my two kids. He even would hit the dogs. It was like living in hell. He refused to talk to a consular and he also refused to even try and get help for his anger. So what should I do. I'm lost. And feel like I am just un sure about everything at this point.
Answer by mom057 at 3:00 AM on Apr. 3, 2011
Answer by dutchcanadain at 3:20 AM on Apr. 3, 2011
Babes it was the first time getting in trouble with the law but it wasn't the first time he's been violent. I know it's hard but I would let what the courts decided ride. I would also make sure to put in that this wasn't the first time, if they don't know already. Don't beat yourself up over it! And ask if he can get into counceling.
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