I moved into a old hs classmates extra room. I thought she was my friend (not real close but friend) but like a day or two after living there she text me "today is trash day so go sit out on the corner". I was like WTF? is that coming from? I didn't do crap to make her say something so negative. I kinda brushed passed it and was doing my thing to get myself my own place and car. She kept saying negative thigns to me and insulting me with stupid stuff. I felt like I couldnt say anything to much because I had no where else to go but I was like you are being very rude. After one day I was like lets talk she was so unresponsive and was like you have 6 months to get out. She knew my siutation and i was like whatever. I did find my own place but it wasn't easy.
This has been almost two years ago but her words still haunt/hurt me cause they all were so untrue. She said I never lived on ppl's sofa's and sum other made up junk. She don't even know me like that to know who and where I have been. A few ppl I told about the situation was like she is jealous cause u a single mom is doing more...me not seeing the truth was like what does she have t be jealou for? She is married, he bought her a trailer, she has a job and car. Granted she is still very ugly, fat, unpopular, and unimportant.
I am just very beautiful inside and out, hardworking, going to school, working, lost all baby weight and then some, and trying to do what is best for me and my kid. I understand why be jealous but damn?
I want to put this hurt to rest. I just don't understand how and why she was so mean to me and I am such a lovely person?
Thanks for the helpful advice. I don't want to carry the bitterness of her around, hang my head low for needing help, and doing well for what cards I was given.
**side note I am being brave and not making this anonymous :)**
Answer by Audrice1985 at 5:58 PM on Apr. 3, 2011
Answer by ImaginationMama at 5:36 PM on Apr. 3, 2011
Simply put, she is a bully who gets her rocks off on hurting other people. She is unhappy and insecure in her situation and will do anything she can to make other people feel just as bad as she does. It is the same in any situation with a bully. I'm sorry that she hurt you so much. The truth is, no matter how secure we are about ourselves; if we hear negative things long enough we will believe them. You need to stand up and be proud of you. You are a better person just because you were so much kinder. Lots of hugs go out.
Answer by krissyvelazquez at 5:38 PM on Apr. 3, 2011
Answer by m-avi at 5:44 PM on Apr. 3, 2011
Answer by Mom-2-3-Girlz at 7:30 PM on Apr. 3, 2011
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