So i am a single mom and I have two kids and my mom recently suggested that maybe I try a few dating sites, i wasnt really up for it but my curiosity got the best of me..especially after she paid for a subscription to eharmony.
So i've been searching..and looking and every guy that i like doesnt want someone with two kids. I' m like..well i appreciate your honesty.
Its so frustrating! Ahh. But maybe Im just not ready for the whole datin scene again. The last man i was with for over a year and hes the father of my youngest. Its been really hard and I am just ready to settle down ,get married and have a real family. No more BullCrap or anything..
is that too much to ask for? lol
Answer by pinkdragon36 at 9:36 PM on Apr. 3, 2011
Answer by BaileysMom476 at 9:39 PM on Apr. 3, 2011
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Answer by dutchcanadain at 10:19 PM on Apr. 3, 2011
Answer by shelle21 at 11:05 AM on Apr. 4, 2011
No, it's not too much to ask for, but you have to remember, meeting up with someone is already nerve wracking. Then to find out she has "baggage" makes it even more difficult. No I don't mean to downplay children as baggage, but it's a lot to handle. How will they fit into this ready made family? Will the children always come first and does he have a say so in the discipline of the children? It's hard. You have to find someone who's mature and ready to accommodate that scenario. Wait...be patient. Define yourself and what makes you happy and the man will come along when you're least expecting it. Good luck! :)
Answer by Droyal14u at 1:17 PM on Apr. 13, 2011
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