I was married and we had a son. I thought I was doing everything right; cooking great meals, cleaning the house, sex all the time like porn stars and he cheated! WTF? There are just some people, that no matter what you give them, it will never be enough. It's been 4 years since I kicked him out and divorced, but it's still a struggle as he was "the one" for me. The betrayal will never go away. I am dumbfounded that he'd give up on US for something so trivial as sex with someone else. Guess it just wasn't as precious to him as to me. I didn't deal well with the breakup. I lost my job, my home and my son and I ended up in a shelter for a while, but we did recover and are now building our lives again. The healing process takes a while. It wasn't YOU, it's HIM. His choice and actions, not your fault at all.
at 1:00 PM on Apr. 13, 2011