I hope this makes you feel better. The majority of women do not experience an orgasm during intercourse. There are the lucky ones that get off every single time, no fail, and there are you and me who wish we could but never quite get there. I used to before my DS was born and now I can't even get close. It sucks SO bad since I've experienced it and now I miss it every single time. There are different approaches to solving this problem and they vary based on what kind of person you are and what kind of relationship you have. If you've got a really receptive, selfless SO who you can talk openly with about this issue, maybe you can find some creative ways of solving the problem. One suggestion I have is have your SO get you ALMOST off in whatever other way he can and then at the last minute, start having sex....Good luck!
at 3:35 AM on Apr. 4, 2011