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Do people at work get on your nerves just by listening to them complain?

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Asked by spagirl0426 at 1:35 PM on Apr. 4, 2011 in Just for Fun

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  • working gets on my nerves :) lol.
    I'm not usually bothered by any one at my work - I'm lucky I think

    Answer by maxsmom11807 at 1:37 PM on Apr. 4, 2011

  • Yes especially when its the same person complaining over the same old things

    Answer by virginiamama71 at 1:37 PM on Apr. 4, 2011

  • OMG YES! We call her "Debbie Downer" and everyone runs for cover when we see her coming!

    Answer by BaileysMom476 at 1:38 PM on Apr. 4, 2011

  • A certain few, yes

    Answer by RedRowan at 1:38 PM on Apr. 4, 2011

  • Yep. There is someone at my work that is constantly talking about her baby. I just want to throw something at her. Thank goodness for my IPOD.

    Comment by spagirl0426 (original poster) at 1:40 PM on Apr. 4, 2011

  • Oh yes, it is so bad that I try to ignore them. Nod and smile! If they hang around then I try to respond positively and yet with very little being said, letting them know that they are not alone, or that they will be fine, or that they can handle it. Or when the complaining is over the edge and driving me crazy I will ask them 'and what are you going to do about it' or 'and did you tell her how you feel/felt?' 'and 'did you reply/answer him back?' I work in an extremely poisoned environment and that garbage can be very stressful. Then make sure they don't get you in a funk-think of something funny, positive, listen to music, step outside, go to the washroom. GL.

    Answer by QandA at 1:46 PM on Apr. 4, 2011

  • Everyday. Same person same exact complaints about the same people. She's been her for 15 years. You'd think she would have figured it out by now that her complaining is not going to change a thing. She either has to accept it or find another job.

    Answer by meooma at 1:48 PM on Apr. 4, 2011

  • YEAH what are they complaining about? Work or some thing personal?

    Answer by butterflies78 at 2:53 PM on Apr. 4, 2011

  • Yes very much

    Answer by Donnabell_nyc at 3:38 PM on Apr. 4, 2011

  • omg!!I get the complaints and then they hit me up for money !!!

    Answer by grismelda at 4:36 PM on Apr. 4, 2011

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