If so, do you want to tell their spouse? Do you allow them to use you as an alibi?
Answer by Austinsmom35 at 2:13 PM on Apr. 6, 2011
Answer by dullscissors at 2:24 PM on Apr. 4, 2011
Yes. My neighbor is cheating on his wife. I told her last night I saw him at a restaurant over the weekend with a woman and they were kissing and cuddling. I was so mad I took video of what they were doing and showed it to her. She thanked me and she has the video proof on her computer now. She had suspected it and accused him but he kept telling her she was nuts. I noticed a locksmiths vehicle was in front of her home and heard him yelling when he couldn't get in. She is a very nice person and I would have felt bad knowing that he was out having sex with someone else and possibly bringing home STD's to her.
Answer by Anonymous at 2:49 PM on Apr. 4, 2011
Answer by zoejains_momma at 2:30 PM on Apr. 4, 2011
Answer by okmommy08 at 2:36 PM on Apr. 4, 2011
I have two friends (girls) who started in with the cheating stuff. I didn't tell the spouses, but I DID remind them of the "contract" of their marriage, and told them that they HAD to be honest with their spouses, and if they fell for someone else, they HAD to do the right thing by getting a divorce and letting their spouse be with someone who actually loved them how they deserve to be loved. I can't sit back and watch someone knowingly hurt another person without saying something. It is not right, and I will not be an accomplice. I have one friend, though, who;s husband DOES know about the man that she loves. He's okay with it. She's okay with it. Weird, but, their marriage, I guess.
Answer by ImaginationMama at 2:38 PM on Apr. 4, 2011
Answer by anayasmommy21 at 2:44 PM on Apr. 4, 2011
Answer by shynu at 2:50 PM on Apr. 4, 2011
Answer by riotgrrl at 2:52 PM on Apr. 4, 2011
Answer by minnesotanice at 2:58 PM on Apr. 4, 2011