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Is it ok not to want the deed everyday?

I can deal with it maybe 1x a week. Is there something wrong with me?

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MexTexmom2

Asked by MexTexmom2 at 11:00 PM on Apr. 4, 2011 in Relationships

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  • I sure hope so... I'm good for 1-3 times a week, depending on my mood
    2AwesomeKiddos

    Answer by 2AwesomeKiddos at 11:01 PM on Apr. 4, 2011

  • It's ok.. stress and day to day life gets to a person. If you want to make time for it, it is up to you and the man.
    Autumn07

    Answer by Autumn07 at 11:04 PM on Apr. 4, 2011

  • It's perfectly fine. Everyone is different. Desire to do the deed can be affected by being tired, stress or just plain not wanting to do anything more than sit down. Honestly, I think 1 time a week is good for people who have kids and other responsibilities.
    wildflowers25

    Answer by wildflowers25 at 11:17 PM on Apr. 4, 2011

  • I am more like every 3-4 weeks. I don't say no. DH's sex drive is low. We have never had sex more often than this and we have been together for 11 years :)
    ashisamom

    Answer by ashisamom at 11:24 PM on Apr. 4, 2011

  • Nothing's wrong w you.
    shynu

    Answer by shynu at 11:28 PM on Apr. 4, 2011

  • I think it's fine, a lot of things go into play when it comes to sex especially for women I think. There are women out there who work full time, take care of the kids, of the house, and to still be expected to jump when the husband wants sex is ridiculous and unfair.
    GomezMami2908

    Answer by GomezMami2908 at 12:09 AM on Apr. 5, 2011

  • i don't think anything is wrong with you
    shanda0914

    Answer by shanda0914 at 8:48 AM on Apr. 5, 2011

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