Ok so my husband just got back from a deployment and i know the whole speel about it changes them and everything but i really didnt think it was gonna be like this. He walks WAY ahead of me everywhere we go he doesn't hold my hand anymore, he goes up to his "man-cave" and spends hours burning movies or making ta-50 chord bracelets. He also doesn't even tell me he's going to bed anymore he just goes in and goes to sleep. I know that this may sound silly to you but this is not like him he used to be constantly at my side very lovey dovey all the time and wanting to do things with me . He has even changed the way he dresses and talks. I just feel like he is pulling away from me and i don't know what to do. I have had conversations with him about it b/c i am trying not to make a big deal out of it but everytime i do he says he doesnt realize he's doing it and then goes right back to doing it. This is very new to me b/c i am not usually one of those girls that gets all emotional and never before have been the touchy-feely kinda girl. i feel lost b/c now that i am opening up more and showing my feelings i feel like he is pulling away. I am sorry this is so long and drawn out i just really needed to get it off my chest. Any thoughts?
Answer by kathyartist2007 at 12:45 PM on Apr. 5, 2011
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