I went through a miscarriage about half year ago. It was not a planned pregnancy as I didn't even know. My daughter was 9 mths old and i was scared of how to take care 2 kids. I was sad hearing doctor announced the bad news and hold the tears until I walked out the doctor clinic after the surgery. Took a day off and just let myself cry out all of the pain. I still think of the baby, especially when I rock my daughter to sleep at night, i would say sorry for the unborn baby silently that I was sorry not knowing earlier to take care better of myself. I was extremely busy at work during that time. I would say we are adults now, if it happens, we just find the most suitable way to face and deal with it. Hope everything will be ok with you!
If you bf leaves you for a miscarriage, maybe he isn't the right person to raise a child together. He should stay with me because he loves you not because you are carring his baby.
at 4:10 PM on Apr. 5, 2011