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What would you do?

so while my fiance was home on leave we got in to an argument. well he left his phone inside when he took off. well i went thru his facebook and found a message telling one of the married females to stop by his room at anytime since he was going to be there all day. this was right around christmas. well he swears that she never did stop by and that he told her to not come to his room. we have had issues in the past due to him cheating and i just dont know what to do. in past relationships ive cheated then he came around and i changed i know we had our issues one month and he left since he didnt know what he wanted and it was during that time that he cheated. he's had his ups and downs like we all have. i do know that its up to the person on wether they want to change or not. i just cant seem to get over it and thats hurting myself.

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 2:18 PM on Apr. 5, 2011 in Relationships

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  • a ring wont change him and suddenly make him a better man.. if you are finding stuff like this and dont trust him time to go
    zoejains_momma

    Answer by zoejains_momma at 2:19 PM on Apr. 5, 2011

  • Well sounds like there is no trust so maybe you guys should go get some help.
    momavanessa

    Answer by momavanessa at 2:20 PM on Apr. 5, 2011

  • move on sorry but once a man cheats its done
    graceblessedmom

    Answer by graceblessedmom at 2:35 PM on Apr. 5, 2011

  • I would not marry someone I didn't trust.
    mompam

    Answer by mompam at 2:38 PM on Apr. 5, 2011

  • Well if he cheated you before then he will do it again and again he will never changed once the trust is broken then it's going to be a problem you should moved on and you can do better with out him I'm sorry if I was in your shoes I would leave him I cany be marriage to someone who cheated on me that's just how I roll leave and start a new chapter in my life.
    Donnabell_nyc

    Answer by Donnabell_nyc at 2:39 PM on Apr. 5, 2011

  • do you want to man who cheats
    beacuse this is what this man does
    has done in the past, and then this, what do you think future will bring?

    best indiccation of future actions are past actions

    you are better than what he offers

    fiatpax

    Answer by fiatpax at 3:09 PM on Apr. 5, 2011

  • i'd tell him to hit the road. you deserve better than this, good luck!
    xLeeAnnex

    Answer by xLeeAnnex at 4:16 PM on Apr. 5, 2011

  • No trust no relationship. Time to move on.
    meooma

    Answer by meooma at 4:43 PM on Apr. 5, 2011

  • HONEY time to move on he is cheating on you and you know it!!!!!!
    jimenez123415

    Answer by jimenez123415 at 12:44 AM on Apr. 7, 2011

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