Okay so I broke up with my ex 7 months ago, he was my first love, three months ago I started dating a lovely boy. About 6 weeks ago my ex asked to see me and I said yes, one thing led to another and we ended up in bed (I thought I was still in love with him and he said if I broke up with my boyfriend we'd try and work things out) I told my boyfriend and he was quite laid back about it I also explained I thought I was still in love with him, a few days later he told me he loved me and I said it back, because I was in a mixed up place. I now regret it. I am his first love and I feel terrible, I do love him I just don't think I'm in love with him. I love being with him and he does make me happy but I don't feel the same way I felt when I was with my ex, theirs no butterfly's or my heart doesn't skip a beat........
Anyway after that my ex invited me to a get together at his on the weekend (we are still good friends). I want to go because since that happened with us 6 weeks ago my boyfriend always wants to stay in or we just do something together I feel like I have no space and when I do want to go out he says he wants to know where I am and who I'm with I can understand where he is coming from but I'm getting lonely and I'm too young to be tied down. I really want to go but I'd feel so guilty for lying (obviously I'd lie about who I'm with and where I am so he wouldn't go mad).
You can judge me, you can bash me but I really don't care. I want an opinion of someone who can understand and give me some advice.
Asked by Anonymous at 5:51 PM on Apr. 5, 2011 in Relationships
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