She asked me this the other day. My nephew will be 3 in July so of course it wont be for a while. And maybe she should tell if he asks (I don't know), but this is the thing. My sister had a baby by this guy that left her when he found out she was pregnant and denyed being the dad my sister went for a DNA and he never showed. So to me if he doesn't show he must know he is the dad. But anyway, she has a boyfriend that has been in his life since he was 2 months old. So of course he calls this guy dad and this guy suports him (they aren't married someday though). But she asked me if she should tell him when he is old enough or should she not say anything at all (if this guy doesn't ever come around) what do you think? Also her boyfriend would love to adopt him someday. I told her that she needs to go get ahold of him and tell him to sign over his rights and if he denys then to tell him she is going to go after him for child support then I think he would give up his rights, but she said he probably wouldn't do it anyway. I told her that he would go to jail then she said that he would probably go to jail she said he doesn't mind sitting in jail he has been in jail before. What do you think? Also if he is in jail and refuses to pay child suport can they make him give up his rights?
Asked by Anonymous at 6:07 PM on Apr. 5, 2011 in General Parenting
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