so after i picked up girls from school we went to my Job for a while my 6 year old asked can she spend the rest of the day with my mom so i dropped her off there while me and my 8 year old went to go pay for the dinner reservations for her party,&Went shopping for the rest of the stuff
so we went get to coldstone and my daughter says
Her:Mommy i wanna ask you a question but can you tell me the truth
me:yes sure i can
her:Mommy even if the truth is gonna hurt my feelings i really want you to tell me the truth
me:i promise i"ll tell you the truth,whats the question?
her:Mom do you think my real daddy loves me?
me:why do you ask that?
her:Because mommy i really try to make him love, but i dont think he does hes always reall mean to me and stuff and i feel like shayy(his fiance)doesnt like me eather but i didnt do anything for them not to like me i really didnt,and no matter what i do h doesnt act like he loves me mommy does my daddy love me? do you think?if he doesnt mom you can tell me the truth because i know i have another daddy that loves me alot(my husband) and even tho he passed away i know he still loves me
me:Yess i believe your dad loves you,some people just have a hard time showing others that they love them,
her:well Mommy then why couldnt i go to his house this weekend?even after the court people said i could?and i really was looking forward to going there with my brothers and sisters
me:well um,you have to call him and ask him why didn't you go to his house this weekend that's a decision he made,& if you feel like this then maybe you should talk to your dad about this,
her:Mommy he never cares about me so i just want to ask him does he love me as much as he love shayy(his fiance) and if he doesn't then i"ll try to make him love me as much as he love her because he loves her a whole lot
^^ during that conversation tears came to my eyes,because it hurts me that my daughter cant go to her fathers house because his fiance wants a DNA test on all 8 of his children!!! i dont even know were to go from here i thought about calling him to talk about this but im in no mood to argue with this man right now!! what do i do?
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