Like alotleft2do said....pray. I lost my first child to miscarriage, and my next pregnancy after that was high risk...so I understand your dilemma. I didn't just pray...I cried out to God. I told Him my fears, my frustrations, even my expectations and hopes. He comforted me in a way I can't describe. ((HUGS!)) Best wishes to you and your unborn baby, and may God bless you both. Also, my condolences on your loss. A support group for mothers who have suffered the loss of a child would probably help you greatly. It will help you not feel so alone, and they can help you grieve in a healthy way. One more word of advice on that, though: If you lost an unborn child, seek a miscarriage support group; if you lost a born infant, then seek a stillbirth/ infant loss group, and so on. The feelings and tone of those groups are different, and it can make a huge difference in the effectiveness of your therapy.
at 2:17 AM on Apr. 6, 2011