I am the mother of a four year old little boy. His father has literally put me through hell and back since our son has been born, taking me to court all the time. Right now we are currently in a situation where my son came back from visitation and told me and my husband that his father beats him and hits him in the head, so being a good responsible parent I called dcyf to have it looked into. I had to file in court and serve him telling him that I was having dcyf look into it.
The day he got served he filed a restraining order on me and lied to obtain it, saying I called him and threatened his life, which never occured, I brought phone records and email conversations, he showed up with nothing. There were no calls made to him. I don't even have a number to reach him at! He files restraining orders on me every year. Also he lies to the court trying to get me in contempt saying I don't let him see our son.
Which is a lie, I have a log book kept for all the days he misses, he never calls to confirm the visitation, when previously the judge told him that he had to give me 24 hr notice if he is showing up or not, because he is never consistant with his visitation. Now that there is a restraining order, the original drop off was 60 minutes away each way and the judge issued me to drop him off, but I did get the motion changed to dropping him off in my hometown.
Due to the fact that I have no car and no license. I am unable to operate a vehicle do to a medical disability, the judge granted the change, that they have to come up here, now my sons fathers mother is texting me and harrassing me telling me they are the ones to always come up here so now its my turn.
I feel like they don't really care about my son because if they cared they would show up and not treat the matter like its a game, she orders and makes demands saying that pauls the one who has to come get him because shes not willing to drive up here, and that someone in my family has to drop him off, at the drop off location, none of my family members want to get involved because in the past him and his mother lie and file false statements saying that my family threatens them which they don't so none of my family want to get involved or drop him off ( they shouldn't have to be subjected to their lies).
Also I told her I will be not communicating with her anymore or answering her texts because she harrasses so my husband has offered to be the 3rd communicator on my behalf, because he hates to see me disrespected by them, and she said if he tries to contact her she will get the police involved. Which is pathetic.
I really don't know what to do anymore, because it has gotten so out of hand.
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