My son's dad and I are not together. My son is an infant, less than 6 months old, and we haven't been together since I was 2 months pregnant. His father has a new girlfriend, they're living togther after dating for only 2 months. They're "engaged" with no rings, but have known eachother for 13 years. Well, sometimes she'll message me on myspace and say she can watch our son..this is on a day say I call his sister and ask if she wants to see her nephew.
Asked by Anonymous at 3:42 AM on Nov. 30, 2008 in Babies (0-12 months)
Yep. Her relationship is with a man, not the mans child while he is absent. They are together two months & already living together? It certainly does not represent sound decision making. Tell her to stop over stepping her boundaries with your son. She can take part with the baby as the father has his time with the infant, that is between them.
Does she have kids? Doesn't sound like it or she would know better than to act like this with a new mom of an infant. We are allowed to be protective of our kids & anyone that does not realize that needs to be schooled on that fact !!
Given his history with women, it should not be that hard for you to spell it all out for her. I sure would. I'd tell her to concentrate on her new man & back the hell off my new baby !! Good luck.
Answer by strongmom40 at 4:22 AM on Nov. 30, 2008
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& about the test results. If it is his test & it is up to him to pick up the results, you really don't have much say in how he picks them up or who he sends to do it. Don't start the visitations & situation off by worrying about things you can not control. You will become very weary quick. Pick your battles. Since your son is so young & the father does have a history of jumping women, I would get complete proof of every one he has the baby around. A picture, something concrete that will hold up in court if every you need it. Psychologist have proven how harmful it is for people to be ripped in & out of kids lives. It won't look good on him in family court if he starts dragging this boy through all sorts of women. Just thought I would say that.
Answer by strongmom40 at 4:33 AM on Nov. 30, 2008
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