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so come to find out today my husband's grandma gave him 40$ and he spent 30 of it on weed. meanwhile im using little swimmers as diapers for our 2 and 1 year old because we don't get paid til friday. he said he didn't know we needed diapers but he's seen me using them and i know ive said once or twice that these little swimmers suck. not to mention he got laid off 2 friday's ago, we're on unemployment but he's been dragging ass looking for a job. i just can't take this shit anymore. what a selfish move that was.


Asked by Anonymous at 1:21 PM on Apr. 6, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (13)
  • Holy shit, yes I'd be pissed too!

    Answer by yesmaam at 1:22 PM on Apr. 6, 2011

  • something needs to be done. parents shouldn't be doing things like that.

    Answer by febmom007 at 1:23 PM on Apr. 6, 2011

  • What an dick! I would be seriously kicking some ass

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 1:35 PM on Apr. 6, 2011

  • Maybe I am too mean, but if my husband ever did that, his ass would be out the door! I would NOT condone using drugs OR putting his wants before his children's NEEDS. Besides, if you kicked him out, you could get more assistance until you could get back on your feet and maybe he would man up and get a job himself. Show him you're not messing around, girl! I told my husband he has 3 months to be okay with the idea of quitting smoking and in 3 months he'd better start the quitting process. I am NOT letting my kids watch their father die from lung failure like I am doing now with my dad.

    Answer by Kari727 at 3:15 PM on Apr. 6, 2011

  • yea and hes like "wow i cant believe youre THIS mad about it" and "well another bad day i guess" because i am angry about it. basically acting as if he did nothing wrong.

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 1:24 PM on Apr. 6, 2011

  • That reason right there is exactly why I do not condone drug habits. Drinking, smoking, over-eating, etc. He had to know you needed diapers, and hygienically, those should have come first. I'd be exactly what you'd said, livid. Just be mad for awhile. It's ok to.

    Answer by matobe at 1:29 PM on Apr. 6, 2011

  • What a selfish jerk putting his drug habit above his own children's needs! Hope you told his grandma how he spent the money on weed and NOT on his children who needed diapers!

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:58 PM on Apr. 6, 2011

  • Yup, wow! I totally agree. Yeah, that's not good, girl! I say you put a fire under his ass to get him to quit his drug habit & to go get a job like a real man & father would. Good Luck !

    Answer by loudnproud87 at 2:39 PM on Apr. 6, 2011

  • Maybe Grandma could buy you diapers next time rather than waste the money on him...

    Answer by jmpj8107 at 2:55 PM on Apr. 6, 2011

  • Weed? that's so childish... he needs to grow up and you need to get the hell out of there before you lose both of your children for it....

    Answer by VanessaMomof2 at 3:28 PM on Apr. 6, 2011