Okay! So when I was pregnant my baby daddy's step mom was nice to me..at first. But then I went into pre-term labor and I was sent down the Bangor 'which in Maine is a major hosital and a big deal to be sent there'. When I got down there she was all about taking control. I was going in and out of labor and this one time right when I went back into labor ( the stepmom, my BD and his dad were there) I was screaming in pain and I could barely stay still, She made my BD LEAVE ME IN THE MIDDLE OF GOING INTO LABOR!They went out to eat and went shopping and everything! Finally they had came back and the Dr's had stopped my labor. Well After that my BD left me, returned home and started dating someone else. 2 months later I returned home as well and went into labor, I called the BD and told him I was in labor, and what did he do? He went to the school dance because his step-mom told him to. She's threatened me a million time that she was going to take my daughter away. Now me and the BD are back together and she's trying to be all nice to me and be in my daughter's life. Should I just forget about the past and move on? Or am I right to hold a grudge to her and not forgive her and ignore her attempts?Answer Question
Answer by anon1986East at 2:49 PM on Apr. 6, 2011
Answer by MaryMW at 2:50 PM on Apr. 6, 2011
Answer by Anonymous at 2:56 PM on Apr. 6, 2011
Answer by mom2mybabes at 4:08 PM on Apr. 6, 2011
Make it clear that you can forgive but will not forget...Also, make it clear that this child is YOUR child and she needs to back off and not threaten you.
Answer by monshine2 at 4:17 PM on Apr. 6, 2011
Answer by jspenny2705 at 7:05 PM on Apr. 6, 2011
Answer by Austinsmom35 at 10:09 AM on Apr. 7, 2011
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