Ok, so my question is ... does it annoy you how some people are like "Oh you're only happy with your man because you haven't been with him long. Give him time. You won't be happy like you are now in a few years." "Your relationship is FRESH, just give it time. You are in the "honeymoon" stage" .... ERR! I hate that. They assume you haven't been in a long term relationship before. ya know ?? If you say you are happy in a long term relationship, you have to be lying or something. Its like they think everyones relationship turns unhappy eventually ... fyi, that's not true!! Yes a lot of them do, but not all of them do. ya know ? Why don't our relatinship advice count ?? Its like if you are in a short term relationship like 6 months or shorter, you advice/opinion doesn't seem to count because you haven't been with that person long enough and if you say you are happy in a long term relationship, it seems like you advice/ opinion doesn't matter either because they assume you are lying about being happy. Has anyone noticed this? I'm not just saying this about this site, I'm saying this about people off the site as well.
For example .. my parents have been together for 28 years. They still flirt & everything with each other. You can tell when they look into each other's eyes, are are still inlove. Well they were flirting in line at Walmart a few years ago and this lady looked at them and said "Oh give it a while, you guys are in your honeymoon stage." My parents looked at her laughing. They said " Um, we've been together for over 20 yrs."
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