I don't want anyone to make this decision for me, maybe there is a POV that I haven't seen.
I am 24 and ever since I can remember my dad has always been really negative. He seemed happiest with me when I was involved with drugs and doing nothing with my life. But I have came a long way from then.
It seems like he's never proud of me, never happy for me. He talks down to me and talks crap to me. When I do something for myself to better me and my family he just puts me down. It always gets to me and days after I talk/see him(which is very rarely) I get a lil depressed.
I have told him how he is but he denies it and calls me a liar says I am over exaggerating and dramatic. I have been thinking of telling him he can stay out of my life if he's going to continue to be negative. I just haven't been able to bc he's my dad and I keep giving him all these chances, but no change.
I do gotta say that he's not ALL bad. He is my dad and I love him and I know he loves me. I just lost and idk what to do.
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