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My husband started a job lastweek its a 8 hr.A day hard job.But lately he isn't being touchy feely or trying to make love to me i am so lonely and i don't know what to do really .....he doesn't seem to care anymore

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Asked by Anonymous at 4:32 PM on Apr. 6, 2011 in Relationships

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  • is this happeningonly since he got the job? Maybe he is just stressed about finances.

    Answer by ria7 at 4:33 PM on Apr. 6, 2011

  • Have you asked him whats going on? Maybe he is just stressing over his new job....

    Answer by booger14 at 4:34 PM on Apr. 6, 2011

  • well its been like this for a while.If i ever want sex i have to be the one provoking it

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 4:34 PM on Apr. 6, 2011

  • I'm thinking just stress...just be there for him... guys don't normally talk about how their "feeling" so don't expect him to just open up. How long was he unemployed.... a new job could be taking a toll on him. Give him time. Be patient with him. : )

    Answer by VanessaMomof2 at 4:36 PM on Apr. 6, 2011

  • I'd go with the stress thing, there's nothing more stressful and mind consuming than starting a new job. New people to adjust to, new routines, new responsibilities... give him some time to adjust and be patient for him. As far as time together, wait until his Friday rolls around and when he goes into shower off, meet him in there. I"d just slip in there quietly after he's already in the shower, strip down and start lathering him up. Don't press for sex exactly, just tell him you appreciate what he's doing for you both and your there for him. Just have him stand there and you wash him down. If something 'comes up' LOL, go with it!

    Answer by pinwheel at 4:51 PM on Apr. 6, 2011

  • um its been a week, give him a chance geez.

    Answer by notjstasocermom at 5:01 PM on Apr. 6, 2011

  • if he's only been like this since the job it could be stress. if not then i would talk to him about it. he could be depressed or very stressed.

    Answer by xavierlogan09 at 6:36 PM on Apr. 6, 2011

  • Maybe he's tired out from the job.

    Answer by jspenny2705 at 7:37 PM on Apr. 6, 2011

  • I say he's probably just stressed out. My current bf acts like that sometimes when he's having a lot of over time (like working 60 hours a wk) or if he's having problems at work with co workers or the bosses, which this sounds kinda bad, but I know he doesn't have the time to cheat because he works with my dad, LOL So I know its work because when the problems stop & the over time stops, he's back to normal !!!! :) I say give it time, Sweetie. Let him adjust to change he's going through !!

    Answer by loudnproud87 at 12:06 AM on Apr. 7, 2011

  • Maybe he is stress out about his new job .just give him sometimes or you can talk to him about it .is this happening when he started his new job ?

    Answer by Donnabell_nyc at 11:29 AM on Apr. 7, 2011

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