9 years I have been married to my husband. I love him with my whole heart. But for him SEX just isn't important. I have spent times where through out our marraige I have had to cry, beg, plead.. and still he has no care to help me find sexual furfillment.
I am so hurt that frequently his desire to sleep.. is more important than anything else. He will often sleep at night, have a nap or even two on occasion during the day.. Yet that still is more of a priority!
I am tired. I am tired of my needs not being met. I am tired of it not bothering him.. and not mattering. I have told him multiple times that I personally fight a battle to not indulge in mastribation(Personally I don't feel it is ok!) Others can do as they choose.. I don't think it is acceptable and always feel guilty if I do pleasure myself.
Now I am not saying he never has sex with me.. but it can be as infrequent as 1 time a month.. and there have even been times where it has gone 3+ months...
WHAT CAN AND SHOULD I DO..
No Divorce is not an option!
No cheating is not an option!
Asked by Anonymous at 3:27 PM on Apr. 7, 2011 in Relationships
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