I posted on here last night about an argument my boyfriend and I had got into yesterday. Incase you didn't see it, long story short, his ex bought us a baby gift, she asked for him to meet her, I wasn't comfortable with it, and he told me I HAD to go with him. Just some stupid BS, but I was really upset over it last night. I also vented in a group and I was amazed at some of the responses I got!! One woman said that she felt bad for our baby for having such immature parents and the fact that we weren't married yet was a problem. We have a wedding planned and we are engaged I am just not used to saying fiance!! Other women were defending him instead of trying to see why I was upset, I mean, I am 8 months pregnant ALMOST EVERYTHING makes me upset right now lol. When I posted on here though so many ladies were supportive and understanding and thank you to those of you who are on here to be supportive and helpful!
And as a conclusion to what happened with the whole situation that occured last night...
My boyfriend texted the girl this morning saying he didn't know if I would be comfortable with him meeting with an ex (which is how I feel it should be considering I am having his baby and we are planning on spending the rest of our lives together it should be expected that my feelings come first). She got really angry and told him to lie to me and not tell me she was an ex!! Then he told her he wasn't going to lie to me and she got even more angry. So in the end, I am glad my boyfriend straightned up after being a jerk last night, and I feel better knowing that he wouldn't lie to me and atleast he was honest in the beginning.
But seriously, What a bitch?!?! He said he wasn't going to talk to her anymore, I hope not cause if she was a true friend then she wouldn't tell him to lie to me. The fact that she got so upset over him putting my feelings first worries me that she still has something for him.
I do wish that some women didn't feel the need to be such bitches all of the time. I see people vent about all sorts of things on here and I try to be nice and supportive because even if it seems dumb to you it may be something that's really upsetting them! Rude mean comments aren't going to make them feel any better!
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