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Teenage relationships?

Honestly, i feel as if teenage relationships are needed not too young, but i think 14 and up is allright because we've all heard of people end up marrying their highschool sweethearts. And if they dont date how are they ever going to learn what it's like. Im not saying having sex but you know the first time holding hands,kissing,&etc... Whats your opinion?

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Asked by Anonymous at 3:06 PM on Nov. 30, 2008 in Teens (13-17)

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  • i think 14 is a fine age. of course there will be supervision etc. you cant hold your children back from everything.

    Answer by KelsoBabeyy at 3:07 PM on Nov. 30, 2008

  • I think to many parents want to protect they're children and it ends up drving them away even more, i think you are right and teenagers should have there personal space.

    Answer by Mummytomore at 3:09 PM on Nov. 30, 2008

  • I think that you have a life long availability for relationships, and just because some one starts as young as 14 doesn't mean they will learn anything about relationships.

    Your only young once, and only able to do the things young pl. do for a very short amount of time. I've seen in my community with the girls that went to school with me, with my nieces, friends kids, etc... too many lived ruined and stiffled do to parents trying to be "cool" and allow their very impressionible, immature (emotionally that is), overly sexed teens date then wonder why their lifes went to the pooper.

    Why not wait until 17,18?

    Answer by Happ-eToBme at 3:15 PM on Nov. 30, 2008

  • With proper supervision I think 14 is a great age to start feeling things out per say. No matter what age out start dating you are gonna make mistakes so let them start experimenting with the type of relationship they are wanting younger. The more they feel out the more they learn. Not only about dating but what they really want to look for in a mate.

    Answer by But_Mommie at 8:00 PM on Nov. 30, 2008

  • 14 year olds do not want to be supervised on dates. I agree with Happ-e-bme. the older the better. Teen boys are thinking of only one thing anyway.(SEX)

    Answer by louise2 at 9:50 PM on Nov. 30, 2008

  • mine goes out on supervised dates with his girlfriend .they never fuss about one us being there with them all the time . atlest they are not running around behind our backs seing one another

    Answer by rona503 at 1:44 AM on Dec. 1, 2008

  • I agree with Mummytomore. My parents never allowed dating. Period! I wasn't prepared when I went out on my own. I would agree with supervised dating - but I don't think that it would be cool with parents. I would gladly have a friend and her date go to supervise my kids. That way they might feel more relaxed about it....not having mom right there - kind of embarrassing!

    Answer by Babylove76 at 9:38 AM on Dec. 1, 2008

  • Thats right i agree 100%!! beacuse if the parents wait till 16 or 17 there already near grad. and prolly. there true love just swept right through there high school years

    Answer by hmp1 at 2:41 PM on Dec. 1, 2008

  • hmp1, you must be pretty young!How many ppl. you know married with out first getting pregnant their so-called "high school sweet heart" (not lived with or had a kid with their "high school sweet heart" but actually married)?Not many I bet and how many of those stayed married after a few yr.s?I'll tell you very few, very few if any at all.

    Why? Because when your 14, 15, 16, 17 , 18, etc... your a child, you act in a childish manner, think in a childish manner.

    As you grow up, you and your partner grow apart because your no longer the same ppl. you were when you met that person (u grew up) intern your no llonger with the actually person you fell "in love" with. So relationships don't last because neither one of you is the same. Con't...

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:05 PM on Dec. 1, 2008

  • Con't...
    I am so glad I didn't act so stupidly and either got pregnant or married some one I went to high school with or middle school. They are all bums now.

    I married a Man, we then planned our children, got pregnant, had our babies and I'm blessed to me a SAHM. No all my other friends who got with the first fool who batted his eyes at her have 2 or 3 kids by different guys by now, or the same guy but are no longer with their child's father. Or they got married because they were preg. now are in loveless marriages, who lack respect, care, love, passion or interest. And those same girls wish they could be at home with their kids btu aren't able to afford it because they just got with any one, starting poping out kids, and never planned ahead. But by all means they are your duaghters, let them act like whores and do what every you think is best for them. I mean God forbid you act like a mother and not a friend.

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:06 PM on Dec. 1, 2008

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