Okay so me and DH are getting about $4000 back with our tax return in a few weeks....the original plan for the money was to get all the things we need for the baby who is due in June, get some of the issues with our car fixed, and get a big screen TV...DH also wanted to give me $400 to do with as I pleased (I'm SAHM) he's actually "forbidden" me to buy him, our daughter or the baby anything with the money and won't let me buy anything for the house either...he says the money is for me and me alone....of course this made me super happy lol but recently we have had to borrow a significant amount of money from my mother that we need to pay back so now DH is talking about he won't be able to get his TV...when I told him that I don't need the money he was going to give me he kind of got mad and told me that I deserve to have something just for me because I work as hard as he does and yadda, yadda, yadda lol (so sweet lol)
Anyways I feel really bad that he won't be able to get his TV....he was really, REALLY looking forward to it...so should I take the money he was going to give me and buy the TV for him and just deal with his reaction later or what? I'm not even sure why he got so mad when I suggested not taking the money...it was a little weird lol....
What would you do?
Answer by 4loveofmy2 at 6:39 PM on Apr. 7, 2011
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Answer by Kword at 6:31 PM on Apr. 7, 2011