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My boyfriend asked why when I lay on my back my boobs fall to the sides. Uh, probably because I had a kid!! DUH!! And they are heavy what other direction can they go? lol He said he had never seen boobs fall to the sides before, well geez sorry mine aren't tiny and perky lol I know I'm bound to not be alone on this one!! Has your bf/so/dh ever said anything about your body that kind of hurt your feelings?

 
kayaiden8907

Asked by kayaiden8907 at 10:00 PM on Apr. 7, 2011 in Relationships

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  • WOW, what a jerk! Natural boobs tend to look unflattering when we lay down or bend down when we are bra-less, especially after kids and breastfeeding. My husband did make a remark once about my boobs being saggy and I nailed his ass to the wall for it ;-)
    GomezMami2908

    Answer by GomezMami2908 at 10:08 PM on Apr. 7, 2011

  • I guess hes never seen big boobs then. Because thats what most big breasts do when youre laying on your back... Lol. Simple.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:10 PM on Apr. 7, 2011

  • has my husband ever said something about my body that hurt my feelings? well not quite, he made me laugh though. he once told me it looked like my ass was trying to eat my pants. ha! no my boobs don't fall to the side. on the flipside, i've got the chesticles of a little boy.
    mellypoo

    Answer by mellypoo at 10:05 PM on Apr. 7, 2011

  • Wow, I would smack him. i have small boobs so mine don't fall to the side....but even though I'm small chested...I'm smart enough to know that bigger chested women's boobs lay to the sides. Your boyfriend is a dummy....lol.
    worriedmommy600

    Answer by worriedmommy600 at 10:07 PM on Apr. 7, 2011

  • They always get that 'oh crap' look, priceless! LOL!
    GomezMami2908

    Answer by GomezMami2908 at 10:19 PM on Apr. 7, 2011

  • My son's dad use to only want sex and he would only get his. lol well i didn't enjoy it especially bc I just wasn't inlove with anymore. Well we got into a fight one day & he said "If all I wanted was sex, I'd find somone with a better body." I just had our son 3 months before he said that. It was SO hurtful. Having a baby does take its toll on your body. Tell him to keep his rude comments to himself bc they are hurtful. Your man is suppose to compliament you, not put you down. Let him know that. If he keeps doing it. I'd do it back and give him a taste of his own medicine. A lot of men need to taste it before they realize they how wrong their actions really are.
    loudnproud87

    Answer by loudnproud87 at 11:53 PM on Apr. 7, 2011

  • I was in an relationship where I was told for about 2 yrs. on a daily basis, that I was stupid, fat, ugly, unloveable, and a waste of space. After that, there isn't much that my dh now can say that would hurt too much. Besides, I'm my own worst critic. lol. (you aren't alone on the boobs thing either) lol.
    HappyEndings

    Answer by HappyEndings at 10:06 PM on Apr. 7, 2011

  • I am sorry Happyendings, no woman deserves that!
    I think my boyfriend just says things before thinking because he does things like that all the time then gets this "Oh crap, I said something wrong" look on his face lol
    kayaiden8907

    Comment by kayaiden8907 (original poster) at 10:09 PM on Apr. 7, 2011

  • Oh momma, I would love to have that problem.. I am small chested :).. Slap him and say "that's right baby".. "Thats where they go if you have big boobs" :)
    midnightmoma

    Answer by midnightmoma at 10:20 PM on Apr. 7, 2011

  • Haha mine aren't even that big lol only cause I am pregnant, I am going to hate to see what he thinks after this second baby they are really going to go all sorts of directions then lol
    kayaiden8907

    Comment by kayaiden8907 (original poster) at 10:23 PM on Apr. 7, 2011

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