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Do you find yourself behaving differently with different friends?

I find that I tailor my conversations to avoid conflict or nonsense with certain friends

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goodi2shooz

Asked by goodi2shooz at 12:28 AM on Apr. 8, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Yes with some friends I feel like I am walking on eggshells
    christinahenry

    Answer by christinahenry at 12:29 AM on Apr. 8, 2011

  • Yes, I don't talk so freely with my single friends as I do with my married/mom friends.
    GomezMami2908

    Answer by GomezMami2908 at 12:30 AM on Apr. 8, 2011

  • For the most part I am the same but depending on the friend and how close we are they def. see diff. sides of me... But I really think thats how every one is.
    BSumm3rs

    Answer by BSumm3rs at 12:32 AM on Apr. 8, 2011

  • I am the same with everyone. Don't have but three friends, because I like to be honest without being hurtful and apparently people only want someone who is going to make them feel great every moment.
    TwinkleLites

    Answer by TwinkleLites at 12:33 AM on Apr. 8, 2011

  • Definitely. I have some that I feel I'm always tiptoeing around because Lord forbid I say or do the wrong thing. While there are others that hardly know me because I just don't trust them enough to even half open up to them. There are only a couple of people that I feel I can really let myself loose and truly be myself with.
    AllAboutKeeley

    Answer by AllAboutKeeley at 12:37 AM on Apr. 8, 2011

  • I'm basically the same Julie with everyone, but not everyone gets to see all the levels. I'm not a very open person for the most part. With the majority of people, I'm quiet, shy, reserved, nerdy, sweet Julie, but with a certain few I let "my hair down". My DH and my family on occasion get to see the mean pissed off Julie. LOL My brother has a way of bringing the worst outta me.
    mommy_jules

    Answer by mommy_jules at 12:45 AM on Apr. 8, 2011

  • No, no difference.
    tasches

    Answer by tasches at 1:35 AM on Apr. 8, 2011

  • Oh yea. I don't really "act" differently around others, but when I'm around certain ppl I don't let certain parts of me come out. For example, if someone gets offended with sex jokes or when takling about sex in general, I don't mention sex around them at all. That's normal to do :)
    loudnproud87

    Answer by loudnproud87 at 1:49 AM on Apr. 8, 2011

  • well just be with the one you trust most and thats it well this is aal goodby
    marivel718

    Answer by marivel718 at 5:27 PM on Apr. 13, 2011

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