I always wonder " does a great mom would do what I'm doing ? "
I don't know if I am being paranoid, and fear to be judged, or if I don't have enough common sense, sometimes I feel I am doing terrible mistakes, and doing the whole thing wrong... I feel i am a bad mother, and i feel people are looking at me like I am too young (21).
But I try my best since the begining: I had natural birth, I stopped smocking complitly when I was 5 month pregnant, I am breastfeeding, co sleeping. and babywearing him, still sometimes I just don't know what I'm doing or what should I do ?
I'm a SAHM and my partner works at home. We were travellers and so we have a really free kind of life, and we are planning to be back on the roads in a few months, with the little one. I eat in my bed, I eat a lot of chocolate and ice cream,( but not my baby, I only feed him organic veggies and fruit and BM), and dont bruch my teeths every single day, we go to bed really late, and the baby has picked on our schedule ( he goes to sleep around 10pm, and makes me get up at 9am, after waking up all night long to nurse), we say a lot of bad words, and so on....
I also always enjoy when friends are holding him, so I can do stuff,and be chatting like facebook or cafemom.. Am i normal lol ? Should some good mom prefer holding her baby ? He is pretty good with people, but still I am hoding him a lot, my arms are geting tired, he's so heavy !
sometimes i fear that I am not strong enough to protect my baby.
Does anyone feel that way too ? what do you think ? What is a good mom supposed to do or not do ?
Koko la ptite maman.
Answer by EdwinsMommy at 1:20 AM on Apr. 8, 2011
Answer by TwinkleLites at 1:24 AM on Apr. 8, 2011
Answer by TwinkleLites at 1:28 AM on Apr. 8, 2011