Me and my ex have been split up for 2 years now and he has "moved on " to different women and I decided not to see anyone right away because I had to get myself situated. Well I have been asked out by 3 womderful guys over the last 6 months since I was ready to just go out on a date. Well every single time my ex had at least one of his friends spot me somewhere and he would show up wherever I was and start to harrass my date and I. He wouls say things like what are you doing with her? Don't you know this is my girl? I have put a restraining order on him and I have made countless complaints to the police but it seems like they never do anything about it. either way it scares them off and I don't get asked out for a second or third date. I haven't seen anyone in a while and my old friend from hs came home from iraq and we started talking, then hanging out. we are going on our first official date tonight and I don't know how he'll handle my ex when we go out in public. He said that if he tries to start something he'll defend me and not let him intimidate us. I just feel embarrassed about the whole situation and the fact that I have to deal with my ex when I go out in public. He does this to my gay friends too. ugh. so frustrating.
Asked by Anonymous at 4:17 PM on Apr. 8, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by kkbird at 4:22 PM on Apr. 8, 2011
Answer by bdflykisses at 4:22 PM on Apr. 8, 2011
I would go out and try to enjoy myself, I think it's good your date knows before hand what to expect. You have to just go on with your life, the best way you can and hopefully all the' drama" will die down! It maybe a good idea to avoid any places you know he and his friends may show up, just to avoid confrontation. Again, go have fun, I'd say your date can handle what comes his way!
Answer by anichols1 at 4:24 PM on Apr. 8, 2011
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