Anytime I deal with my exhusband/daughter's father I get pissed off. Luckily it's only like twice a month, but I'm so tired of it. I feel like I work so freaking hard and do my very best for DD, then a couple of times a month this jerk feels like being an ass. It's never that he has something constructive or even a valid concern, it's automatically assumed that I've lied about this or that. Then to make it worse, I also have to deal with his crazy fiance. I don't give him a hard time about the scraps of child support he provides or the fact that he's managed to screw my credit up recently(although I have mentioned it about once a month, even though his responses make no sense or he has no follow through).
I'm normally a very positive person and I've really moved passed the hell that he put me through. I love my daughter and have a great life, I've even fallen in love with the most amazing man ever. So now I'm so mad about this round of calls/texts, that I can't even enjoy a Friday at home with my LO or even talk to my boyfriend on the phone. Then thinking about it, I'm mad again that they've ruined the great day I had going!!!!! UGH! Will the day come when he will learn to choose his battles instead of making more? I've learned, can't even begin on all the things I've let go and never said anything about.
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