We usually have sex almost every day, or at least 5 times a week. However, I am about 8 months pregnant, and in the last month it has REALLY tapered off.
He has not wanted to take his time with me at all. It is uncomfortable to go face to face, which is way more intimate in my opinion, so it has basically been the spooning position.
There has been no touching, no trying, no magic, no affection, nothing...and it has really affected my desire to do it at all. I have told him I have no desire to be a receptacle to him, and that having no touching or intimacy is ruining it for me.
In my mind, there is no bigger visual reminder that I am the mother of his children and should be treated with a certain affection than being 3rd trimester with our 3rd child.
I have tried to get him to touch me (i.e. rub my back, or cuddle), and he acts like it is a chore. It is not normally like this, but I don't know what else to do besides hold out until I get the attention I need to even be in the mood. I just feel bad when we have sex and it is 3 minutes of him getting physical while I lay there. I feel like its not like I haven't told him what I need. I don't know.
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