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My SO is so amazing I LOVE him dearly. He works nights Mon-Fri. Am I completely CRAZY that I LOVE the fact he works nights? Does that make me a bad GF? We still have Sat & Sun night together and we still spend alot of time together since I am a sohm. BUT i enjoy my "me" time at night when he is at work & the kids are sleeping... I can do whatever I want... actuslly have the remote (not him controlling it) read, sleep, take a bath or whatever I want. So am I CRAZY?



Asked by BSumm3rs at 12:11 AM on Apr. 9, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (11)
  • Hell no, you're not crazy - we all need and deserve some "me" time. Enjoy yourself, girl!

    Answer by pocmom at 12:37 AM on Apr. 9, 2011

  • no...just like some independence have a good time doing some things you do love. You never know when that can change!

    Answer by christinawillis at 12:13 AM on Apr. 9, 2011

  • No lol everyone likes their "me" time and space. My boyfriend works nights and personally I hate it, I get scared :( lol

    Answer by kayaiden8907 at 12:13 AM on Apr. 9, 2011

  • No, your are entitled to a little you time. I call it, "Keep your sanity time." Without it, we would all go crazy.

    Answer by amessageofhope at 12:14 AM on Apr. 9, 2011

  • Of course you are not crazy, like others have said, everyone needs time to themselves. Some just need more than others. There is nothing to feel guilty about or think you are crazy!!

    Answer by abm1204 at 12:21 AM on Apr. 9, 2011

  • no i dont think so

    Answer by mom0510 at 12:33 AM on Apr. 9, 2011

  • Hell no you aren't, girl!! I sometimes look forward to my bf going to bed before I do bc I can have my "me" time. LOL Sometimes I like it when he works later in the evenings like til 5 instead of getting off at 2 or 3. lol

    Answer by loudnproud87 at 12:46 AM on Apr. 9, 2011

  • My husband used to work 3rd shift so I'd be home without him but now he works 1st shift and I really wish he'd be back on 3rd. I totally understand where you're coming from.

    Answer by tiffanynichols at 4:30 AM on Apr. 9, 2011

  • No that doesn't make you a bad GF at all... more like a human LoL Everyone likes some "me" time once in a while.

    Answer by jspenny2705 at 10:31 AM on Apr. 9, 2011

  • no i dont think

    Answer by kimsmith22 at 3:26 PM on Apr. 9, 2011