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What are you feelings on a second child baby shower?

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Asked by angelkcm2 at 11:31 AM on Apr. 9, 2011 in Pregnancy

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  • Im having one!!! i am pregnant with my second child, however it is a different father so diff family...

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:32 AM on Apr. 9, 2011

  • My family had me 2 with my 1st child and then....0 with my 2nd and 3rd babies. I wish someone would have had me one with the other babies.

    Answer by L0vingMy3Girls at 11:33 AM on Apr. 9, 2011

  • Tacky.

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:34 AM on Apr. 9, 2011

  • I say why not?? I am probably going to have one with my second child, it won't be a big as the first... but second, third, fourth, ect babies deserve to be celebrated too!!

    Answer by Namaste17 at 11:34 AM on Apr. 9, 2011

  • Depends on the situation. Different father, different yes. Otherwise, if less than 5 years has gone by, then no. If more than 5 years has gone by, then yes.

    Answer by tyfry7496 at 11:34 AM on Apr. 9, 2011

  • Do it if you want to. I wouldn't expect it to be as big as the first. It's just to celebrate that you're having a baby. I think everyone deserves to get their friends and family together and just be happy about a new baby.

    Answer by camiam81 at 11:39 AM on Apr. 9, 2011

  • I think its a little tacky because if you have had a child within 5 yrs or so you should already be outfitted with the necessities (strollers, car seat, etc)
    However, we had a baby shower for my mom because her youngest was 7 and she got pregnant again (oops!) I think situtations like that are a little different. or as previous posters have said, if its a different father.

    Answer by bootsky at 11:46 AM on Apr. 9, 2011

  • I think its fine. I had baby showers with all 5 of my kids. My friends and family always threw them for me.

    Answer by gemgem at 11:51 AM on Apr. 9, 2011

  • If your friends or family want to throw one for you I really cannot see how anyone would call it "tacky", unless of course their own family did not throw them one with the next baby. It is more tacky to turn down a party that celebrates the birth of a child.

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:52 AM on Apr. 9, 2011

  • I would love to have one with this baby because my first was a boy and this one is a girl and I have no girl things.

    Answer by Brandi300 at 12:01 PM on Apr. 9, 2011

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