So I found out I was pregnant and my boyfriends mother is super excited and supportive, so she says. I thought we were getting along really well.
Then my boyfriends sister is having a baby shower which I attended with my boyfriends 3 year old daughter, because she loves going everywhere with me. So we get there and his mother doesn't say a single word to me the WHOLE time, until the very end.
My boyfriends grandmother was introducing me to family and says this is my grandson's girlfriend. Very quickly after saying that she says and this is my oldest grandsons girlfriend, WE LOVE HER! SHES A SWEETHEART! This really pissed me off especially because I have never been anything but nice to his family. It was like she was trying to tell me that they don't like me. It made no sense to me because my boyfriends mother was always nice and now all of a sudden his mother and grandmother are purposely being rude to me.
Every time my boyfriends daughter would get upset or cry for me my boyfriends mother would say "Come to grandma" like she didn't want her coming to me even though his daughter didn't listen to her and sat with me most the time.
So the shower is FINALLY ending and we are getting our jackets on and my boyfriends daughter asks me if she can take a balloon home with us. I nicely said no because you always get so upset when they pop and we have no more at home. She was okay with my answer UNTIL my boyfriends mother said "Why can't she have a balloon?" As she is getting ready to hand her one! UGH! So I got upset and just said fine give her one because I know you're going to anyway. I am so mad that she undermined my authority. I am like a mother to her granddaughter and she doesn't care or respect me.
I didn't do anything to her to deserve her treating me like this and I am so confused as to why she all of a sudden started acting this way towards me. When I got home from the shower she came over to see my boyfriend and his daughter for a little while longer. When she finally left I told my boyfriend what happened and he says "that doesn't surprise me, my mothers a b****."
I had an ultrasound the other day and she called my phone I am assuming to ask about how the appointment went but I didn't answer because I am still mad. So she called my boyfriend like 5 times and he didn't answer because he's mad at her for treating me like crap.
Am I overreacting about her sudden change of attitude towards me? Or do I have the right to be as mad as I am? I just really upset right now and need to know if anyone else has been in a situation like this.
Asked by Anonymous at 1:43 PM on Apr. 9, 2011 in Relationships
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