Okay so today I am mad we had our birth records unsealed and they were empty. Not going to make or break me but I am left wondering where I came from and why these people left us with nothing. Anyone else adopted before the 90's wondering what happened or where your birth parents are with the truth?
I can't answer for your personal circumstances but I am a birth mother that belongs to a IRL group.In it there are several birth mothers that found at reunion all the info they had freely given had ceased to exist.As if they had provided no information at all.There are women that provided full names for their child's OBC but when their adult child received the the OBC it said baby girl last name and that the mother had refused to have contact (hold) when they had held the baby or had not allowed to see or hold their baby.This sadly happened (s) TOO OFTEN.
Answer by drfink at 5:26 PM on Apr. 10, 2011
Answer by musicpisces at 11:59 AM on Apr. 10, 2011
Answer by meooma at 12:30 PM on Apr. 10, 2011
Answer by asmcbride at 11:43 AM on Apr. 11, 2011
I don't understand what you mean by "they were empty". I'm so sorry you dont have your information, but don't give up. If you need search help visit this group: http://www.cafemom.com/group/35065
Answer by onethentwins at 6:09 PM on Apr. 10, 2011
Answer by adopteeme at 4:55 PM on Apr. 11, 2011
Answer by Iamgr8teful at 10:13 PM on Apr. 14, 2011
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