Either they been in jail or got multiple kids with women or theyre liars,cheats, losers, users n abusers. I am a 28 yr old that is currnetly in nursing school and im looking for a good man. I have a bf but I realize I have to leave him bcuz he is no good (see previous questions) but im hopelessly falling for him . Why is this happening. I want a good man. I have abandoment issues. My father was barely around. Im going crazy because I want a husband. I already have a son. Hes 4. His father abused me . Why cant I get it rite. I want the american dream to be happy witb husband and kids. I dont wanna be the bitter black woman never married.. Help!!!
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Answer by Nanixh at 1:31 PM on Apr. 10, 2011
When it comes to attracting losers or dating losers you have to look at the common denominator (which isn't the race) it's you. Whats in you that makes you attracted to them in the first place. You have to try to heal what is hurt in you. Other wise the losers see that "weakness" as an in to get you and do with you what they want. It takes most years to do this especially when you are a busy mom. I know all of this because my mom did the same I refused to ever let anyone do that but low and behold it got me. I started working on the crap in me when I was 16. I will NEVER be perfect but I am always willing to learn new tools to cope with my own inadequacies. I would start by journaling and after a while you can read it to see any patterns. That is were I started and it worked awesomely. YOu can do it, we all have our issues to work on good luck
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