I just drove up past my moms house a little bit ago to see what vehicles she now has. Okay so I havent spoken with her in 8years or something like that. Long story but she was abusive & when I was 16 I had the last straw & left, havent looked back.
A family in town kind of has adopted me up over the years & now we live back in town again. I had moved away from the area to get away from the abuse etc but since having my daughter & becoming very close to this adoptive family I wanted to move back near them so my daughter had that close relationship with family that I never had growing up.
Funny thing is I live one mile from my mom now. I have no interest in speaking with her or having any contact but living in the same town there are bound to be incidents of same place same time. So I drove up past her place & I havent been up the road in so long it was simply weird/surreal to see everything once again after so much time. I am glad that I did b/c as I suspected they had new vehicles. Just weird to drive up that way again though, cant really explain it.
Alright I dont have a question for you ladies. I just have nobody to really talk to about this. I dont want to tell anyone that I did this b/c then it may look like I'm interested in contact & I am not nor will I ever be. She threatened my life on more then one occasion she is a danger to myself & my child so there is no need for her in my life. I wouldnt have moved back to town if I wasnt convident that she would leave me alone either. Small town politics you know the family that adopted me up holds more power then she does & once everyone finally realized what had been happening to me for 16 years she lost her power. What does this mean, well if she comes anywhere near me the entire town including many cops (one who lives between me & her now) are all on my side & wont hesitate to do what is needed to keep my daughter & I safe.
Anyway here is a question you think it was dumb for me to make sure I knew her vehicles so I can try to avoid any run ins with her? If I see either of her cars in a parking lot we simply wont go into that bussiness, I will even go up there in a fwe weeks when I think the garage doors will be open just in case there is another car or the ones in the driveway for some reason werent hers. Again got to keep my daughter safe at all costs.
Answer by feralkitten at 6:36 PM on Apr. 10, 2011
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Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 6:31 PM on Apr. 10, 2011
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Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 6:27 PM on Apr. 10, 2011
Answer by twinsplus2more at 6:36 PM on Apr. 10, 2011