With DD (almost 5) we didn't find out gender, and she came home in a sweet gender neutral outfit. Our second DD will be here in the next 5-9 weeks (36-40) and since we know it's a girl part of me wants to get her a cute "Little Sister" layette set, but another part of me feels like that's not fair for her homecoming outfit. Part of the reason I don't think it's fair is we could give DD hers someday for her children, not that she would want it but she would have the option. Another thought had been to bring both our babies home in the same outfit, but then there's no individuality.
I know this is beyond too much consideration for the homecoming outfit, but I'm really obsessing about it (I'm chaulking it up to hormones, and the fact that soon I will have two children---two daughters, and I am scared of doing the right thing for both of them and being fair and whatnot, probably mostly out of fear I won't adjust well to two). So please try to be kind to this crazy pregnant lady, thanks!
Answer by Rosehawk at 9:17 PM on Apr. 10, 2011
Answer by Rosehawk at 9:19 PM on Apr. 10, 2011
Answer by SleepingBeautee at 9:25 PM on Apr. 10, 2011
Answer by mommie_of02 at 7:55 PM on Apr. 11, 2011