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It's so different this time!

Alright , so my bf and I went out & bought stuff for an apartment we are going to be getting this summer. I'm really excited. Why am I excited this time when I wasn't when my son's father and I did it ? I wasn't excited at all when I went out and bought stuff for our apartment when I was with my son's dad. I feel guilty in away bc it's my son's dad!

I do believe I have true love this time. I really do. I sometimes feel guilty that I didn't have true love with my son's dad. Has anyone else experienced this ??


Asked by Anonymous at 12:44 AM on Apr. 11, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (5)
  • when it just works it works don't feel guilty about being excited about this it's a fresh start and a new begining for you! and just enjoy the moment and the now lovely apartment that you and your new man made for your son!! enjoy!!

    Answer by amberpaiz at 12:48 AM on Apr. 11, 2011

  • Yes. Happened with my ex fiance. I wasnt happy about getting stuff for your place but when i got a place of my own I was extremely excited.

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 12:48 AM on Apr. 11, 2011

  • It happens. No worries. Just enjoy.

    Answer by shynu at 1:17 AM on Apr. 11, 2011

  • It happens all the time. You arent with your son's dad for a reason. So enjoy the time you have with your new man

    Answer by shaylamatull at 1:24 AM on Apr. 11, 2011

  • Thanks so much for the supportive & uplifting answers! I just feel so guilty sometimes that I'm not with his dad. I guess its because my parents are still together and I'm 23! lol So I didn't want my son to have step parents, but I guess if he has to have one at least he's going to have a great step dad, right ? :) Thanks so much ladies!

    Comment by Anonymous (original poster) at 3:03 AM on Apr. 11, 2011