We were sitting on separate sofas watching dateline 20/20 about a young man with cerebral palsy that grew up in a Russian orphanage and his horrible upbringing until he finally was adopted. The main point of the story was that any child born with mental or physical disabilities in Russia are abandon and treated poorly. So naturally I was very sad for the kids. As soon as the show was over he said "stupid retards" when I turned to look at him because I was in shock from what he said be then says " Its a joke, I just said it because I knew it would bother you!" I fight back my tears because I am so upset with him saying this after we just watched a boys sad story and tell him what an asshole he is! And that he is horrible for even saying that out loud or thinking such shitty things. He keeps saying he was just joking and didn't mean it but I can't wrap my head around it. I told him it's such BS that he would purposely try to upset me as a joke. So we argue about it because he becomes stubborn and is upset with me that I'm even upset, which makes no sense because he knew I would get upset so then why get mad now when i do what he thought I would do! I'm so pissed and even more mad that he is acting like a stubborn prick afterward. Ugggg what would you do?
Sidenote: he has said stupid shit before like that but I'm just so over his cruel jokes, it disgust me! We have a 2 yr old DD and have been together for 3 1/2 yrs.
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