As in previous posts my stepchildren live with my husband and i along with our other kids. (Husband has custody, mom deemed unfit, kids get supervised visitation) Anyway being the middle man between my husband and the ex wife is really wearing on me. It all started b/c when them two talk it gets VERY ugly. But here lately its every little thing she won't bring the boys to baseball if its on HER day and then wants make up time b/c she won't show for the visits at all. She usually lies and is very irrational so when she says the boys tell her they would rather go to her house for 3 hrs than baseball i know shes full of it. So am i wrong but cutting her off at the gate saying "if you truly feel the boys would rather visit than go to baseball, this should be a non-issue, don't bring them" I'm just tired and NEED peace i feel like she is looking for some kind of approval to act this way not sure what to do.
Answer by laird6372 at 10:13 AM on Apr. 11, 2011
Answer by MrsLeftlane at 10:30 AM on Apr. 11, 2011
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Answer by MrsLeftlane at 10:17 AM on Apr. 11, 2011
Answer by ShelbyShareAlot at 10:46 AM on Apr. 11, 2011
I'm with laird on this one. Don't let that immature "mom" cause more conflict than you need in your life.
Answer by KateShesGreat3 at 10:35 AM on Apr. 11, 2011
Answer by kkbird at 10:39 AM on Apr. 11, 2011
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Answer by ShelbyShareAlot at 10:47 AM on Apr. 11, 2011