Weve been together for 5 years. have a 2 year old.
i love him of course, hes one of my best friends, but we have been through so much in the past year that...i honestly wouldnt care if he left today!
He wouldnt, and thats the thing, i almost want him to. I cause arguments for no reason, but then i want to be lovey towards him. I of course do not do anything abnormal in front of our child, it needs to be as normal as possible for her, so we dont argue or anythign in front of her.
I would like to make "us" work, especially for our daughter, but in the back of my head, i know i cant be happy. theres many things, he needs to change, i myself too, but more him, and i dont see it happening. a few weeks ago i told him he needed to move out then he told me hed change etc. and he has been nice, helpful with the house, our daughter and stuff, but i dont see it lasting as i have given him another chance in the past.
i dont think hes cheated on me, but then again there was a point where he left me out of the blue and i think it was over a diff woman. we split up for 5 months just recently got back together about 5 months ago.
I know im stable to be on my own with my child, i have thought about this because i want it to happen! Hes pushing me away slowly, but now hes working on him, i just dont know if it will last and is even worth it.
Ahh i know this is all confusing but i need to let my feelings out somehow. Any advice? thanks
Asked by Anonymous at 9:11 PM on Apr. 11, 2011 in Relationships
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