I kissed another man accidentally, he's my best friend and has been for years and I kissed him while my husband was away on business for months at a time. I was lonely and the children were driving me up the wall but it's no excuse, I kissed him and I've distanced myself a little from him since. I am always completely honest with my DH so I told him as soon as possible and waited for the avalanche of anger or sadness, but instead he said "well I knew it would happen at some point or another, at least you're being honest with me, what's for dinner?".
Now my irrational brain is thinking does he not love me? Is he cheating too? Has he cheated? Surely he should have got a little mad at least?
Am I over analysing this?
Asked by Anonymous at 9:20 PM on Apr. 11, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by bdflykisses at 9:24 PM on Apr. 11, 2011
Answer by MommaTasha1003 at 9:24 PM on Apr. 11, 2011
Answer by ElsaSalsaaa at 9:24 PM on Apr. 11, 2011
My husband says he would never get upset in front of me over something like this because he is not going to show me his hurt. In his head, if he shows the hurt in front of me, I win and he wouldnt want me to have that satisfaction. Maybe it is the same deal? Its killing him inside, but he wont show it. OR he didn't blow up because he appreciates the honesty SO MUCH he wouldnt want to push you away from telling him things?? Just a thought. Men act strange all of the time. I am a super over analyzer and would think the same thing you are. In my head its always the worst thing too lol. Good luck....and hey..no more kissing other guys:)
Answer by ABusyBee at 9:25 PM on Apr. 11, 2011
Answer by Brandi300 at 9:25 PM on Apr. 11, 2011
Answer by ElsaSalsaaa at 9:25 PM on Apr. 11, 2011
Answer by Musicmom80 at 9:26 PM on Apr. 11, 2011
Answer by gwen20 at 9:28 PM on Apr. 11, 2011
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