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My dh all a sudden wants to wear a rubber

after 3 years of being married and my tubes are tied....y in the world would he want to wear a rubber???????should i be as paranoid as im feeling?

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momofmonsters27

Asked by momofmonsters27 at 1:33 AM on Apr. 12, 2011 in Relationships

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  • That would freak me out. I would ask him what the deal is.
    SleepingBeautee

    Answer by SleepingBeautee at 1:34 AM on Apr. 12, 2011

  • Sounds like either he's cheating or thinks you are..
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:34 AM on Apr. 12, 2011

  • Super fishy. To me that's a big cheating red flag. What's more scary is that he might not be protecting himself with others(if he is cheating) hence he wants to protect himself with you and not give you anything. Talk to him and figure out what's going on.
    GomezMami2908

    Answer by GomezMami2908 at 1:37 AM on Apr. 12, 2011

  • He knows im not ,, cause i never leave the house longer than a few mins without him....and when he's at work im in bed,,,he works nights.....i hate this crap ..........
    momofmonsters27

    Comment by momofmonsters27 (original poster) at 1:38 AM on Apr. 12, 2011

  • sorry, not to scare you but when my ex did that I found out he had gonorrhea and was waiting for the test results, he was cheating. I would go get tested and confront him on that!!!!

    June_Mama09

    Answer by June_Mama09 at 1:39 AM on Apr. 12, 2011

  • Wow... I would be completely paranoid. You should definitely discuss this with him to see whats up.
    tiffanynichols

    Answer by tiffanynichols at 1:39 AM on Apr. 12, 2011

  • omg....umm wow....to think that he might not be protecting himself with someone esle is just disgusting...If he has something ,,i hope his pee pee falls off.............!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    momofmonsters27

    Comment by momofmonsters27 (original poster) at 1:40 AM on Apr. 12, 2011

  • if i got something from him...i just might cut it off myself.........lol...its not funny I dont know why i am laughing
    momofmonsters27

    Comment by momofmonsters27 (original poster) at 1:41 AM on Apr. 12, 2011

  • are there things that I can see on his actual winker...like tell tell sings of std's?
    momofmonsters27

    Comment by momofmonsters27 (original poster) at 1:42 AM on Apr. 12, 2011

  • Unusual lumps or sores, discharge. Some show no signs though.
    GomezMami2908

    Answer by GomezMami2908 at 1:44 AM on Apr. 12, 2011

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