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Is it cheating to have a boyfriend and girlfriend? ( no 3somes involved) and they know about the other one.

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kittie1919104

Asked by kittie1919104 at 10:27 AM on Jul. 10, 2008 in Relationships

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  • i say that if they both know about each other and they are both ok with the situation, then no,it isn't cheating. that just makes it an "open" relationship
    Dark_Princess_2

    Answer by Dark_Princess_2 at 10:30 AM on Jul. 10, 2008

  • No but its weird if you ask me.Go Tila!
    kellyandliz

    Answer by kellyandliz at 10:34 AM on Jul. 10, 2008

  • not if they both know, are ok, and everyone is honest with each other, why not?
    tpaangel8122

    Answer by tpaangel8122 at 11:29 AM on Jul. 10, 2008

  • I would think they call that an open relationship, not too sure though. If they both have agreed that it's ok to be with someone else then I wouldn't think of it to be considered cheating.

    It's done with consent from both parties. Now if one didn't know the other was with someone else then yes it would be cheating for the fact that the person is being sneaky and not being honest with their partner.
    Ourstateofminds

    Answer by Ourstateofminds at 12:47 PM on Jul. 10, 2008

  • I do consider it cheating, no matter what gender your doing it with. But then again I'm a firm believer in monogamous relationships.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:28 PM on Jul. 10, 2008

  • if they don't consider it cheating then no. just because someone else thinks its cheating it doesn't really matter, what matters is that everyone involved is happy and ok with it! : )
    scarletsm0m

    Answer by scarletsm0m at 6:34 AM on Jul. 11, 2008

  • If they are both ok with it then no
    maisynmommy

    Answer by maisynmommy at 11:24 PM on Jul. 13, 2008

  • No it is not cheating. But I wanted to be your girl. Damn guess I am too late!
    KANDIERAIN

    Answer by KANDIERAIN at 2:18 AM on Jul. 27, 2008

  • Yeh by a week or so lol
    kittie1919104

    Answer by kittie1919104 at 3:08 PM on Aug. 2, 2008

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