So when it comes to sex I have given my husband what he wants when it comes to his fantacy but he wont give me mine. How do I get him to do this? If you want to know what it is ask. I don't want to give tmi on here. I don't really think it's bad but some people may be a little weirded out by some things on here.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 12:36 PM on Apr. 12, 2011 in Relationships
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Answer by kyuteangl88 at 2:16 PM on Apr. 12, 2011
I can only answer in regards to my husband/myself/our relationship.
It wouldn't bother me if I had a fantasy that my husband would not fulfill. Even if I had fulfilled his.. I would not have fulfilled his fantasies just so he would turn around and fulfill mine. I would have done so because I wanted to, because I thought it would be fun, I found the fantasy pleasurable and apealing..etc.. Since I fulfilled his fantasy with him because of my own desire to do so. I would only want him to fulfill mine if he truly desired to do so. For me, there is no fun in doing something because I'm hoping for reciporcation. That would cause me to develop hurt feelings and resentments if my husband didn't do what I was wanting. For me, a fantasy is only fun if BOTH of us are into it. So, I wouldn't want to do something if we both weren't into it.
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