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A friend

I have this guy friend but for some reason he whats to have sex with me and I have told him no so many times he just don't listen I told him on my phone because he texts me because he don't what is girlfriend to know and I getting piss . I have told him that I am marry and I will not do it

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Asked by kdrzewiecki at 8:13 PM on Apr. 12, 2011 in Relationships

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  • He is so ready to disregard your marriage and you still call him "friend"? I'd tell him to forget my name because NO means NO.

    Answer by AAAMama at 8:15 PM on Apr. 12, 2011

  • Friends don't make other friends feel awkward on purpose. If he knows you mean no but keeps doing that, I would keep my distance.

    Answer by since_3.18.93 at 8:17 PM on Apr. 12, 2011

  • He is not your friend if he is wanting you to ruin your marriage and he is not respecting you. Block him and cut him out of your life.

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:17 PM on Apr. 12, 2011

  • You tell em AAAMama!!! No friend would treat you like that. If he can't respect you as just a friend, he doesn't deserve you as a friend.

    Answer by BabyBugsmama at 8:18 PM on Apr. 12, 2011

  • it seems like you enjoy the attention. if a man talks to me like that and he knows i am in a relationship or married... that means he has no respect for me or my husband/bf. he is being disrespectful and u keep allowing it by keeping in contact with him.

    Answer by gwen20 at 8:19 PM on Apr. 12, 2011

  • What kind of friend is that?????? He should NOT be your friend anymore. It's NOT what good friends do.


    Answer by MommyOK at 8:20 PM on Apr. 12, 2011

  • This guy is not a friend. I would cut all contact with him immediately.

    Answer by AllAboutKeeley at 8:20 PM on Apr. 12, 2011

  • Ummm that doesn't sound like a friend...more like a booty call!


    Answer by Anonymous at 8:20 PM on Apr. 12, 2011

  • And this is a friend? Please. He has no respect for you and just sees you as a piece of meat. Drop that friendship ASAP.

    Answer by GomezMami2908 at 8:21 PM on Apr. 12, 2011

  • If you are a married woman who wishes to keep her marriage intact , it is best just not to have guy friends . It is quire common for men to take advantage for sex and , of course , some women do too. Cheating on his girlfriend is another reason to end this friendship with him - now.

    My husband is man enough for me and I have no need of friendships with other men . I have girl friends, some married , some not. , we enjoy each others company, they are always welcome in my home , my husband is courteous and plite but doesn't make passes at them .

    You need to get your priorities in order - marriage first , then friendships which will not affect your marriage or others' relationships

    Answer by janet116 at 8:21 PM on Apr. 12, 2011

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